Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

Making friends in Shimokitazawa and Kōenji

Shimokitazawa and Kōenji are Tokyo's creative, slightly scruffy neighbourhoods: vintage shops, tiny bars, live music and cafés where nobody is in a hurry. They attract artists, musicians and young people from all over the world, and they're some of the easiest places in the city to start a conversation.

Where people meet

Vintage shops

Browsing secondhand stores together is one of the most relaxed first plans in Tokyo.

Live houses

Small music venues host shows most nights. Going to a gig is an easy second hangout.

Small cafés and matcha spots

Shimokitazawa has several matcha cafés within a few minutes of the station. Matcha cafés in Tokyo.

Reload and Bonus Track

New open-air shopping streets in Shimokitazawa with cafés and benches, good for meeting someone new.

Kōenji's covered streets

Long shopping arcades full of cafés, bars and secondhand shops.

Easy first plans

  1. A matcha or coffee near the station. Short, easy to leave, and you can walk around after.
  2. An hour of vintage browsing. Something to look at keeps the conversation flowing.
  3. A small live show. Better as a second plan, once you know you get on.
  4. Walk between the two. Shimokitazawa and Kōenji are a short train ride apart, so you can try both.

Tips

The app

Meet someone near Shimokitazawa

Buy Me a Matcha helps you meet new people in Tokyo one at a time over a coffee or matcha. In English, friends only, free on iPhone.

  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
Get it on the App Store Not a dating app. Made in Tokyo.
A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

How can I make friends in Shimokitazawa?

Vintage shopping, live music, small cafés and the open-air streets around the station are relaxed ways to meet people. Friend apps help you find people nearby to meet one-on-one.

Is Kōenji good for foreigners?

Yes. Kōenji is relaxed, affordable and creative, with many young people and musicians from abroad.

What's a good first plan in Shimokitazawa?

A matcha or coffee near the station, then an hour of vintage browsing.

Is there an app to meet people near Shimokitazawa?

Yes. Buy Me a Matcha lets you set your area by station, so you can meet people around Shimokitazawa and Kōenji one at a time over a coffee or matcha, in English.