Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

Making friends as an exchange student in Japan

An exchange semester in Japan goes by fast. The friends you make in the first few weeks often shape the whole experience. Here's how exchange students make friends, both inside their program and beyond it.

Your first two weeks

  1. Say yes to everything. Orientation, welcome parties, dorm dinners. Everyone is new and open right now.
  2. Join one circle (サークル). University clubs are where Japanese students socialise. Pick one and go every week.
  3. Find your buddy program. Many universities pair exchange students with local students. Use it.
  4. Make a group chat. LINE is how everyone stays in touch in Japan, so set it up on day one.

Meeting Japanese students

Circles and clubs

Sports, music, dance and volunteering circles mix exchange and local students.

Language exchanges on campus

Many universities run weekly sessions.

Classes with group work

Projects give you a natural reason to meet outside class.

Friends beyond your program

Avoid the exchange-student bubble

The app

Meet people beyond your program

Buy Me a Matcha helps you meet new people in Tokyo one at a time over a coffee or matcha. In English, friends only, free on iPhone.

  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
Get it on the App Store Not a dating app. Made in Tokyo.
A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

How do exchange students make friends in Japan?

Orientation and dorm events, university circles, buddy programs, on-campus language exchanges, and outside clubs, events and friend apps.

How do I make Japanese friends as an exchange student?

Join a university circle and go every week, use your buddy program, attend on-campus language exchanges and look for classes with group projects.

Is it hard to make friends as an exchange student in Japan?

The first weeks are usually easy because everyone is new. It gets harder later, so keep meeting new people after the first month.

Is there a friend app for students in Tokyo?

Yes. Buy Me a Matcha is a friends-only app for meeting people in Tokyo one at a time in English, including international students.