Invitations are taken literally
"We should hang out sometime" is often heard as a real plan, and "maybe" can mean maybe. If you mean it, add a day: "How about Saturday?"
一度会って楽しかった。でも、そこから「友達」になるのが難しい。実は、ちょっとした文化の違いを知るだけでぐっとラクになります。
You met once and it was fun, but turning that into a friendship feels hard. Knowing a few small cultural differences makes it much easier.
In Japan, people often wait to be invited so they don't impose. Many foreigners do the same in Tokyo, because they don't want to bother you. The result: two people who both want to hang out, both waiting. If you invite first, you'll usually find they were hoping you would.
"We should hang out sometime" is often heard as a real plan, and "maybe" can mean maybe. If you mean it, add a day: "How about Saturday?"
A clear "I can't this week, but next week?" is friendly, not rude. Vague answers can be confusing; honest ones are appreciated.
Splitting is normal for friends. Taking turns ("I'll get the coffee, you get it next time") is a nice way to make sure there's a next time.
Some people reply instantly, some take a day. A slow reply usually just means busy, not uninterested.
When a friend compliments you, a simple "Thank you!" is perfect. Saying "no, no, not at all" can sound like you disagree with them.
Asking "What do you like doing on weekends?" or "Why did you come to Japan?" shows interest. Most people love talking about it.
Buy Me a Matcha shows you people in Tokyo who speak English and also want new friends. Match, pick a café, and meet one-on-one over a matcha. Free, and not a dating app.
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