Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

Making friends in Shinjuku

Shinjuku is Tokyo's busiest hub, which makes it easy to meet in and surprisingly easy to feel alone in. With language schools, universities and offices all around, it's full of people who are new to the city too. Here's where to meet people, and how to keep first plans calm.

Where people meet around Shinjuku

Language schools

Many Japanese language schools are around Shinjuku, Takadanobaba and Shin-Okubo, so classmates and school events are a natural start. Making friends at language school.

Shinjuku Gyoen

A beautiful garden for a calm walk away from the crowds.

Cafés away from the station

Quieter cafés a few streets from the main exits are better for a first chat.

Easy first plans in Shinjuku

  1. Coffee or matcha a few streets from the station. Quieter and easier to talk.
  2. A walk in Shinjuku Gyoen. Seasonal flowers, calm paths and space to chat.
  3. Korean food in Shin-Okubo. A fun, casual second plan.
  4. An evening view from the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building. Free observation decks with a great city view.

Tips for meeting in Shinjuku

The app

Meet someone near Shinjuku

Buy Me a Matcha helps you meet new people in Tokyo one at a time over a coffee or matcha. In English, friends only, free on iPhone.

  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
Get it on the App Store Not a dating app. Made in Tokyo.
A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

How can I make friends in Shinjuku?

Language schools, universities, hobby and game cafés, Shinjuku Gyoen walks and English-friendly events are good places to start. Friend apps help you find people nearby to meet one-on-one.

Is Shinjuku good for meeting foreigners in Tokyo?

Yes. Many language schools and universities are around Shinjuku, Takadanobaba and Shin-Okubo, so there are lots of people who are new to Tokyo.

Where should I meet someone new in Shinjuku?

A quieter café a few streets from the station, Shinjuku Gyoen, or the free observation decks at the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building.

Is there an app to meet people near Shinjuku?

Yes. Buy Me a Matcha lets you set your area by station, so you can meet people around Shinjuku one at a time over a coffee or matcha, in English.