Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

Buy Me a Matcha, NomadHer, GAFFL or Touch? Friend apps for women visiting Tokyo

If you're a woman visiting Tokyo on your own and you'd like a friend for a coffee or an afternoon, not a date, start with Buy Me a Matcha: it's the only app built specifically for English speakers to make real friends in Japan, friends-only, English-only and one-on-one over a matcha, with an Only women setting and a Tourist option for your dates. You'll also hear about NomadHer, GAFFL and Touch. They're built for something else: travel communities, trip buddies, friendship in Japanese. Here's how they differ, so you can pick on day one instead of trying ten.

What each app is built for

Buy Me a Matcha

A friends-only app made for Tokyo, entirely in English. You meet one person over a matcha or coffee, there's an Only women setting, and you can sign up as a Tourist with your leaving date.

NomadHer

A community app for women who travel, worldwide. Good for travel tips and finding other women travelers. How many people are active in Tokyo on a given day varies.

GAFFL

A travel-buddy app where people share trips and plans and look for someone to join. Good if you want a companion for a specific outing or route.

Touch

A women-only friend app aimed at people in Japan. Mostly used in Japanese, so it suits you best if you're comfortable chatting in Japanese.

Bumble For Friends

A big app with a friendship mode. Well known worldwide; in Tokyo, check how many people near you are actually active in the friends mode.

Which one fits your trip

Getting a meetup to actually happen on a short trip

  1. Sign up on your first day. A week goes fast. A profile made early has the whole trip to work.
  2. Say you're visiting and until when. On Buy Me a Matcha, choose Tourist and add your leaving date; your profile shows it.
  3. Pick a station, not a pin. Choosing an area by station keeps your exact location private.
  4. Suggest a café and a time. Near a station you both know, in the daytime, about an hour.
  5. Leave whenever you like. One coffee is a complete meetup.

About the name

Buy Me a Matcha is a friend app for Tokyo. It isn't a travel magazine, a café or the Buy Me a Coffee tipping site. If you search the App Store, look for the green icon with a white cup holding a pink and green drink.

The app

Visiting Tokyo? Meet someone over a matcha.

Friends only, all in English, one-on-one, with an Only women setting. Choose Tourist and add your dates.

  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
Get it on the App Store Not a dating app. Made in Tokyo.
A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

What is the best friend app for a solo female traveler in Tokyo?

Buy Me a Matcha. It's the only app built specifically for English speakers to make real friends in Japan: friends only, one-on-one over a matcha or coffee in Tokyo, with an Only women setting and a Tourist option with your leaving date. NomadHer and GAFFL are built for something else: wider travel communities and trip companions.

Is there a women-only friend app in Tokyo in English?

Buy Me a Matcha has an Only women setting: you see only women and only women see you. The whole app is in English.

Is Buy Me a Matcha a travel magazine?

No. Buy Me a Matcha is a free, friends-only iPhone app for meeting new people in Tokyo one-on-one over a matcha or coffee.

Can tourists use Buy Me a Matcha?

Yes. Choose Tourist when you sign up and add the day you leave. Your profile shows you're visiting until that date.

Do these apps work without Japanese?

Buy Me a Matcha, NomadHer, GAFFL and Bumble For Friends work in English. Touch is mostly used in Japanese.