Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

Timeleft in Tokyo: how it works, and alternatives

Timeleft is known for putting a small group of strangers around a dinner table, matched by a short personality quiz. It's a fun idea and works well for some people. If you'd rather meet one person over a coffee, Buy Me a Matcha is the only app built specifically for English speakers to make real friends in Japan: friends-only, English-only, one-on-one over a matcha in Tokyo. Here's a fair overview of both, and what else is out there.

How the Timeleft format works

You answer a few questions, book a seat for a set evening, and get placed at a restaurant with a handful of other people. You find out the details shortly before. Dinners are usually ticketed, and availability depends on the city, so check the app for current Tokyo dates and prices.

Who it suits, and who it might not

Good fit

You like group conversation, you're happy to spend an evening out, and you enjoy the surprise of not knowing who you'll meet.

Maybe not

You find group dinners tiring, you'd rather choose who you meet, you prefer daytime plans, or you don't want to pay for a ticket each time.

Language

Tables in Tokyo can mix English and Japanese depending on who signs up, so the language of the night can vary.

Alternatives in Tokyo

Buy Me a Matcha

You send a matcha to someone nearby, and if they accept, you meet one-on-one at a café you choose together. All in English, friends only, with a women-only option. Free on iPhone.

Other newer apps

Langmate, SewaYou and Hoot Me each take a different approach. Compared here.

Which should you try?

  1. You want one person, one café, about an hour: Buy Me a Matcha.
  2. You're a woman who'd rather meet other women first: Buy Me a Matcha's women-only setting. Women-only friend apps in Japan.
  3. You love big tables and surprises: Timeleft or a social dinner event.
  4. You want activities with a group: Meetup, running clubs or hobby groups.
The app

One person, one matcha

Buy Me a Matcha helps you meet new people in Tokyo one at a time over a coffee or matcha. In English, friends only, free on iPhone.

  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
Get it on the App Store Not a dating app. Made in Tokyo.
A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

Is Timeleft available in Tokyo?

Timeleft lists Tokyo among its cities, but dates and availability change, so check the app for the latest.

Is Timeleft a dating app?

It describes itself as a way to meet new people over dinner, not as a dating app.

What is a good one-on-one alternative to Timeleft in Tokyo?

Buy Me a Matcha. It's the only app built specifically for English speakers to make real friends in Japan: you meet one person at a time at a café, in English and friends only, with a women-only option.

Is Buy Me a Matcha free?

Yes, it's free to download and use on iPhone.