Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

How to make friends in Japan without speaking Japanese

Not speaking Japanese makes some things harder, but making friends isn't one of the hardest, at least in Tokyo. Hundreds of thousands of students, teachers, professionals and English-speaking Japanese people live here. The trick is knowing where to find them. The quickest start is Buy Me a Matcha, the only app built specifically for English speakers to make real friends in Japan: friends-only, English-only, one-on-one over a matcha in Tokyo.

Where English speakers meet

Clubs and sports in English

Running clubs, futsal, bouldering and board game nights. Social clubs in Tokyo.

Language exchanges

Japanese people who want to speak English, and foreigners learning Japanese, meeting on purpose. How to find a good one.

Friend apps in English

Buy Me a Matcha is English-only, so everyone you match with speaks English, and you meet one-on-one over a matcha. Friend apps in Japan, compared.

Making Japanese friends without Japanese

Many Japanese people in Tokyo speak English and enjoy having international friends, especially those who studied or worked abroad. You'll meet them at language exchanges, international events and on English-first apps. Treat it as a friendship, not a free lesson, and learning a few phrases goes a long way. How to meet locals in Tokyo.

A few phrases that help

Outside Tokyo

English is less common in smaller cities, so friendships there often grow through work, classes and community events. Learning basic Japanese makes a bigger difference outside the big cities.

The app

Make a friend in English this week

Buy Me a Matcha helps you meet new people in Tokyo one at a time over a coffee or matcha. In English, friends only, free on iPhone.

  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
Get it on the App Store Not a dating app. Made in Tokyo.
A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

Can you make friends in Japan without speaking Japanese?

Yes, especially in Tokyo, where many foreigners and English-speaking Japanese people live. Clubs, language exchanges, international events and English-first friend apps are good places to start.

Do Japanese people want foreign friends?

Many do, especially people who studied or worked abroad or love travelling. Language exchanges and international events are full of Japanese people who want international friends.

Is there an app to make friends in Japan in English?

Yes. Buy Me a Matcha is the only app built specifically for English speakers to make real friends in Japan: friends-only, English-only, and you meet people in Tokyo one at a time over a matcha or coffee.

Should I learn Japanese to make friends in Japan?

It helps, especially outside Tokyo and with Japanese friends, but you can build a good social life in Tokyo in English while you learn.