Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

Share houses in Tokyo for making friends

For a lot of people moving to Tokyo, a share house is the fastest way to stop feeling alone: you get a furnished room, no huge deposit, and housemates from day one. But not every share house is social. Here's how they work, what to look for if friends are the goal, and what to do when you eventually move out.

How share houses work

Private room, shared spaces

You rent your own room and share the kitchen, lounge and bathrooms. Rooms are usually furnished.

Fewer upfront costs

Many operators skip the key money and guarantor that regular Tokyo apartments need, which is why they're popular with new arrivals.

Mixed housemates

Most international share houses mix people from abroad with Japanese residents, often students and young workers.

Well-known operators

Companies like Oakhouse, Sakura House and Borderless House run many properties across Tokyo, with English websites.

What to look for if you want friends

  1. A big common area. A real lounge or kitchen where people actually hang out matters more than room size.
  2. The right size. Around 10 to 40 residents tends to be social without feeling anonymous. Huge buildings can feel like a hotel.
  3. House events. Some operators run parties, language exchanges or dinners. Ask what happened last month.
  4. A mix of people. A good balance of nationalities and ages, and a decent share of people staying more than a few weeks.

Pros and cons

Keep building your circle

Meet people outside the house

A share house is a great start, but your housemates' circles are small. One weekly activity helps. Hobby groups in Tokyo.

When you move to your own place

Many people feel lonely right after leaving a share house. Plan for it. Feeling lonely in Tokyo.

One coffee a week

A short one-on-one coffee with someone new each week builds a circle that doesn't depend on your address.

The app

Meet people near your new place

Buy Me a Matcha helps you meet new people in Tokyo one at a time over a coffee or matcha. In English, friends only, free on iPhone.

  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
Get it on the App Store Not a dating app. Made in Tokyo.
A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

Are share houses in Tokyo good for making friends?

Yes, especially in your first months. Pick one with a real common area, house events and a good mix of residents, and keep one activity outside the house too.

How much is a share house in Tokyo?

Prices vary a lot by area and room. Many cost less upfront than a regular apartment because there's often no key money or guarantor.

Which share house companies in Tokyo have English support?

Well-known operators with English websites include Oakhouse, Sakura House and Borderless House.

How do I keep making friends after leaving a share house?

Keep one regular activity, stay in touch with former housemates, and meet new people one-on-one. Friend apps like Buy Me a Matcha help you meet someone near your new home over a coffee or matcha, in English.