Buy Me a Matcha
Tokyo guide · October 2026

Tea ceremony in Tokyo: how to try one in English

A Japanese tea ceremony (sado or chado, "the way of tea") is one of the calmest things you can do in Tokyo. It's a slow, careful ritual of preparing and serving matcha, and many places now offer short experiences in English for first-timers. Here's what kinds of tea ceremony you can book, what actually happens, and the little bits of etiquette that make it easier.

Ways to try a tea ceremony in Tokyo

English tea ceremony experiences

Small studios and cultural centers run 45 to 90 minute sessions for visitors, with explanations in English. The easiest choice for a first time.

Hotel tea rooms

Some big hotels have traditional tea rooms and offer short ceremonies. Usually polished and calm, a good pick if you want something simple.

Garden teahouses

Some Japanese gardens have teahouses where you can sit and have matcha with a sweet, like Nakajima no Ochaya in Hamarikyu Gardens. Not a full ceremony, but beautiful and very relaxed.

Kimono and tea packages

Some experiences combine renting a kimono with a tea ceremony. Fun for photos, a bit more expensive.

What happens during a tea ceremony

  1. You enter and sit. Usually on tatami mats, often in seiza (kneeling). Many places for visitors let you sit more comfortably if kneeling is hard.
  2. A sweet is served first. A small Japanese sweet (wagashi) balances the bitterness of the matcha. Eat it before the tea.
  3. The host prepares matcha. Every movement is deliberate: cleaning the tools, adding matcha powder and hot water, and whisking it until it's smooth and frothy.
  4. You receive the bowl. Bow slightly, pick it up with your right hand, rest it on your left palm, and turn it a little so you don't drink from the front.
  5. You drink and admire. Finish the tea in a few sips. It's polite to look at the bowl afterwards and appreciate it.
  6. Often, you try whisking. Many experiences let you make your own bowl of matcha at the end.

Simple etiquette and tips

After the ceremony: more matcha in Tokyo

The app

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  • Friends only, never dating
  • Everything in English
  • One person at a time, at a café you pick
  • Optional "Only women" setting
  • Free on iPhone
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A Matcha Plan card in a chat on Buy Me a Matcha: near Nakameguro Station, tomorrow

Questions people ask

Can I do a tea ceremony in English in Tokyo?

Yes. Many studios, cultural centers and some hotels offer short tea ceremony experiences with explanations in English, made for first-timers.

How long does a tea ceremony experience take?

Visitor experiences usually last about 45 to 90 minutes. A traditional formal tea gathering can take much longer.

Do I have to kneel during a tea ceremony?

Traditionally guests sit in seiza, but most experiences for visitors let you sit more comfortably if kneeling is difficult.

What should I wear to a tea ceremony?

Comfortable clothes you can kneel in and clean socks. Avoid strong perfume and large rings or bracelets.

Is matcha at a tea ceremony bitter?

It can be a little bitter, which is why a sweet is served first. Most people find it smooth and pleasant.